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The (very different) Tale Of Two Tragedies

Updated: Oct 29, 2023

Let’s not blame media sensationalism. There’s more at play, and more at risk, and it relates to how we exercise empathy.

Recent tragedies have brought to light the stark contrast in media coverage between two events: the loss of a submarine carrying wealthy tourists to the wreckage of the Titanic and the sinking of a refugee boat in the Mediterranean, resulting in presumably hundreds of lives lost. But this isn’t just a result of the media's fixation on the sensational. Sadly, in addition to a very different level of media coverage we also see a difference in the depth of response and support for one of these events compared to the other. I feel this discrepancy underscores the existence of an empathy gap within society.

In examining the reasons behind this gap, it becomes evident that our connection to cultural narratives plays a significant role. If we are to learn from these tragedies it should be to celebrate human determination in its many forms. We can also learn the importance of comprehensive education that incorporates empathy and empowers us to tackle a wider variety of challenges that we face as a society.

"With travel being such a big part of how we can expand our lived narratives, I see the passion many of us feel for travel not just as hobbies, but as part of a larger effort of creating a more compassionate world." - Charles Odom

Understanding the Empathy Gap

The empathy gap refers to the disparity in emotional response and concern we exhibit towards different events or individuals. In the cases of the submarine incident and the refugee boat sinking, the differing levels of media coverage and emergency response highlight this gap. Despite the submarine tragedy involving fewer lives and being largely a thrill trip for wealthy tourists, it received extensive attention, possibly due to our long-standing cultural connection to the Titanic. We lack, however, a similarly meaningful connection to the plight of refugees. And we should also note that for those who do have awareness of the plight of refugees, it’s often through a politicized lens rather than first-hand experience.

The Role of Comprehensive Education

Comprehensive education holds the key to bridging the empathy gap. By incorporating empathy-based learning into how we learn about our world, we can cultivate an understanding of diverse cultures, experiences, and global challenges. Learning about the plight of refugees, their stories, and the underlying causes of displacement nurtures empathy and dismantles stereotypes. It is through education that we can create a future generation equipped with the tools to empathize and take compassionate action. We can also reframe the refugee “problem” into a cause that we all feel compelled to address.

The Transformative Power of Travel

One powerful means of educating ourselves and exercising compassion is through travel. Travel exposes us to different cultures, perspectives, and realities, opening our hearts and minds. By engaging with communities, including refugees, we gain firsthand experiences that challenge our preconceptions and foster empathy. Travel broadens our understanding of the world, enabling us to develop a deeper connection with global issues such as the refugee crisis. It is through these transformative travel experiences that we learn the tools to be empathetic and take meaningful action.

It’s about learning that not everyone is like me, and that’s nothing to be afraid of.

Empathy as a Catalyst for Change

Bridging the empathy gap requires a collective effort to create a more compassionate and inclusive society. Comprehensive education and travel experiences provide the foundation for this change. Education equips us with the knowledge and understanding necessary to empathize with those in need. It helps us recognize the influence of media narratives and work towards reframing them to humanize the experiences of refugees. Meanwhile, travel serves as a powerful catalyst, enabling us to witness firsthand the challenges faced by others and inspiring us to become agents of change.

So let’s make positive change. Let’s not forget to think about those affected by the tragedies of the past week. Let’s also not neglect those who are the victims of the empathy gaps in a bunch of other areas. Remember, we all share this planet, so the victim of the empathy gap is everyone (including you). Here are a few other examples where we all may want to question the lens or filter that is widening our empathy gap, and take opportunities to learn a bit more:


Juneteenth commemorates the emancipation of enslaved African Americans in the United States. Despite its historical significance, this holiday has not received widespread recognition and educational emphasis compared to other holidays. Understanding Juneteenth is crucial in acknowledging the legacy of slavery and the ongoing fight for racial equality.

Indigenous Peoples' Rights

The realities and challenges faced by Indigenous communities often go unnoticed in mainstream society. Learning about the history, culture, and current issues affecting Indigenous peoples, including the impacts of colonization, land rights, and cultural preservation, is essential in fostering empathy and supporting their struggle for justice and equality.

Environmental Justice

Environmental issues disproportionately affect marginalized communities around the world. This includes issues such as pollution, lack of access to clean water, deforestation, and climate change. Raising awareness about these environmental injustices helps us recognize the interconnection between environmental and social issues and encourages us to take collective action.

Systemic Racism

Systemic racism persists in various aspects of society, including education, criminal justice, healthcare, and employment. Understanding the historical context and the ways in which systemic racism perpetuates inequality is crucial in fostering empathy, dismantling biases, and advocating for social justice.

Gender Inequality

Despite progress, gender inequality remains a global challenge. Issues such as gender-based violence, unequal pay, limited access to education and healthcare, and gender stereotypes continue to impact the lives of individuals around the world. By educating ourselves about these issues and supporting initiatives promoting gender equality, we can work towards a more inclusive and equitable society.

Mental Health Stigma

Mental health is an essential aspect of overall well-being, yet stigma and misconceptions surrounding mental health persist. Promoting empathy and understanding towards individuals facing mental health challenges helps reduce stigma, increase support, and improve access to resources and treatment.

Historical Reexamination

Reevaluating historical figures and events is crucial for understanding the full context of our shared past. Reconsidering and critically examining the narratives that shaped our understanding of history allows for a more empathetic and accurate portrayal of historical events.

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